There is Only One Relationship: Notes on Reading Tara Singh’s “Love Holds No Grievances”

I think this is the last in a series of posts on this little book. Previous posts here and here. Many thanks to those of you who read and shared and also who prompted me to come back to it. And always, love and gratitude to Tara Singh 🙏🙏. In “What is Relationship” in LoveContinue reading “There is Only One Relationship: Notes on Reading Tara Singh’s “Love Holds No Grievances””

Thought is Not the Problem: More Notes on Tara Singh’s “Love Holds No Grievances”

In “Healing Relationship” in Love Holds No Grievances, Tara Singh talks about forgiveness as a process of becoming responsible for what is going on internally. The problem is never “out there,” but inside. Relationship is the site of learning how to forgive in this way. Relationship has no opposite to it . . . RelationshipContinue reading “Thought is Not the Problem: More Notes on Tara Singh’s “Love Holds No Grievances””

Joining with You: Notes on Tara Singh’s “Love Holds No Grievances”

The other day I re-read part one of Love Holds No Grievances by Tara Singh. It is a beautiful book, not quite 100 pages, and so full of wisdom and insight that even a handful of sentences can change your life. If you give the words the attention – which is to give yourself theContinue reading “Joining with You: Notes on Tara Singh’s “Love Holds No Grievances””

Another Way – an ACIM Way – to Look at Reality

Dear L___________, Another way to think about reality is that it’s this – this this. You can be confused about it, sure. You can deny it. You can even be cognitively or otherwise incapable of recognizing it. But you can’t not be in it. You can’t not be included. So a good question to askContinue reading “Another Way – an ACIM Way – to Look at Reality”

Called Home to the Holy Instant

Often I am outside before dawn. Light changes; the world wakes up. Chickens and horses, neighbors walking dogs, the traffic on Route Nine going east. When we are still and quiet, the world wakes up inside us. Thought slows and the mind extends far beyond the body, discovering it is already one with the horses,Continue reading “Called Home to the Holy Instant”